A thank you note for spammers

A thank you note for spammers

Dear spammer,

I used to get very frustrated whenever I used to see new comment in my spam and it wasn’t related to the post at all (mainly ads for their products) while I used to jump in joy seeing one more spam comment in my stats. But now I’ve come to realize the importance of such things. They do two things for me –

1. At least you visited my blog and took pain to comment on my post, even if it was mere a copy paste from somewhere. I’m very thankful for that.

2. Since most of the comments are in Japanese and I’m lacking material to make my kana reading stronger, I sincerely, from the bottom of my heart, thank you for providing me the opportunity to help me in that field. Although I cannot read Kanji (yet) but I’m sure, they will help me with that too, in future.

Just Another Spam Comment

Now coming to the person who has been commenting for SEO every alternate day, I cannot install a plugin since I’m on WordPress.com and not WordPress.org. I want more views to my blog too. But I can’t help you with that. But since you’re visiting my blog every other day, I take this opportunity to thank you for worrying about your plugin my viewership more than me.

That being said, for once I decided that I would let the spam comments of above two types on this post show up. But now I’m thinking if I should do that or not. I’m still confused, so I’ll postpone my decision. But I’ll once again thank you.

Regards,

EastAsianLover

Finally….

Finally….

Finally, the audit has ended. And I got a compensatory leave today because I had been working hard and even spent last sunday at office as I told in this post. So, I’m enjoying and I’ve slept for whole day till now.

In India, a 10 day festival called ‘Navratri’ has started. During this time, people worship different ‘avatars’ of Goddess Durga and young girls in real life. The diet becomes strict too – no onions, garlic etc. Many people keep fast ranging from one day to all nine days. The tenth day is celebrated as Dussehra.

But since I’m in Thailand, leave food for fast, I can’t have onionless food too. And thus I learn of one more compromising situation. Well I should be thankful that I’m at least getting Indian veg food.

But I’m happy that I can start with my studies now.

Today’s song –

After one of the workers at company told me she went to Big Bang’s concert yesterday, only this song is coming to my mind. I’m not a big Big Bang fan. I have never liked their songs but both the recent singles by GD and Seungri were catchy. Added them to my playlist.

50 Ways To Kindness At Work | Jackie Yun

50 Ways To Kindness At Work | Jackie Yun

50 Ways To Kindness At Work | Jackie Yun.

Ah! Such fun and easy ways to give back and receive happiness. Couldn’t let this one go……

Fast Update – Very Busy

Fast Update – Very Busy

There is an audit going on now at the company and everyone is so very busy. We worked yesterday, yup, Sunday, till 12 midnight (not complaining, I’m flaunting, yes, flaunting). It was my choice though. I was asked to go home at 7 in the evening but I said, I wanted to help in any way I could. I know I’m an intern and ultimately, my mentor has to revise every document she makes me work on. But her work reduces too. I am helping her with designing work also. Countdown posters and small small animations. I have been asked to design banners for the company now! I’m glad, I’m doing all sorts of work.

But even now I don’t have time to write the essays, where the deadline is today itself. I tried to find time but couldn’t. I’m happy about the work. We have a lot of fun in between, making jokes, clicking photos, eating, and celebrating when even the smallest task gets completed. But my Korean studies are suffering and GoGo course is coming to an end soon. How am I going to take the exam!! I already couldn’t attend the online classes thus missing so many things. I get so tired in the night, that I enter the house and then no memory remains. I just walk out of the bed in the morning, even forgetting how I reached home (though I come myself by bicycle).

Today, not even some song is coming to my mind. I’m running out of songs now? My life is going down it seems. Anyways, I need to find some good new K-pop songs. Recently I wrote a post on Monkey Majik, so I guess, today I’ll post a Japanese song instead of Korean (hope I haven’t posted that already, in some other post of mine) –

Controlling Emotions

Controlling Emotions

Sometimes, it becomes inevitable but very difficult to control your emotions. I still don’t know, how I’m holding myself back. I was asked to shift my belongings for the fourth time in last three months. Earlier, I thought “Oh! They are providing for my accommodation for free in the foreign land, that’s enough. I’m obliged to assist them.” But today my limit of patience was crossed. How much can one endure?

I got late in obtaining my visa this time and hence my stay in India increased from ten days to two weeks. I was so afraid and regretful. I thought, “They are paying me and treating me just like their employees. This shouldn’t have happened.” Then my father told me to quit worrying coz that was a thing not in my hands. And now those emotions are completely gone!

But I’m a person who won’t say anything. I told my mentor though that this is not fair. But this time, it is for my company only. I had thought in my head, I’ll say this and that but I still couldn’t say anything. When I was told later that I have to shift today itself, I just broke down. Thank God, I was at the room provided to me as abode. I cried for half an hour, this time loudly. At what? At my nature. Why can’t I say anything? If there had been any other person, would have they complied this easily?

I have come to realize, people like me are made use of like that only. If we can’t stand for ourselves, we have to face the consequences. Although, I have known the fact from long before, I still can’t do anything about it. Because people like me think that if I am good to others, others should be too. I always forget that this is what my parents taught me and the world has taken 180 deg turn in the years.

One thing I’m worried about the most is, how I will convince my parents this time. Last time I said the same thing about being thankful and what not. At first they were furious, but then my father accepted it and I was satisfied. This time, they are going to be very upset and one thing I can’t bear is seeing them sad, especially because of others. I just pray for the strength to tell them.

In the end, I can only be angry at myself and my helplessness.

Today’s song – 

Although not related this time. Somehow earlier songs fitted with the situations well……..

15 Days, 3 Months, 20 Years

15 Days, 3 Months, 20 Years

Hello all,

How have you been? Got confused with the title? I was just summing up my life in and out of my country (physically 😛), nothing else.I reached India some two weeks ago after three months in Thailand. I have fallen in love with that country and my experience there. 20+ years in India and three months in Thailand feel soo….. different. Although, many a times I fail to notice that I’m in a foreign country. Everything is fast in Thailand, yet the pace of life is slow.

I’m not saying anything against India. It is the country in which I was born. How can I do that? Anyways, it is time to go back to Thailand and I am anticipating new adventures for the next two and half months. Thailand has given me a lot. I started taking Korean seriously. I’m already learning a lot in the company. And the most important, it gave me a direction. Now I know what I want to do and how I want to do. Earlier, I was very worried.

Also, these 15 days showed me a quick trailer of how my life is going to be when I come back to India in December for good. Ah! I’m going to miss everyone and everything a lot (you will surely find the same line in some random post after three months).

In the end, I would update you with what is currently going on in my life regarding my language learning and other stuff. I have been listening to random K-pop songs again. I did Korean for whole day yesterday and realized, the grammar is as tough as Hindi’s. A lot of things BUT a lot of similarities. So I’m kind of happy about it. I’m being asked to take a test which I don’t want to but nonetheless I will have to apply for it. I want to take another exam but for my parents, it is kind of secondary, so they are asking me to take both, but first one is mandatory (Sigh!). I have been trying various Korean-English and vice versa dictionary apps for the past few days with much disappointment. Because I want an offline dictionary so that even if I don’t have internet access (which happens sometimes), I may still check out the word meanings.

Sometime ago, I connected my social accounts with the blog and I forget to uncheck some of the boxes like for Facebook and LinkedIn, while sharing. Last time I forgot and they got shared. And I don’t know how many of my friends saw this. It’s good on one side but I would’ve been happy if they didn’t get to see through Facebook TT_TT .

Oh! I remembered, today Good Doctor’s next episode would have been released. I’m off to watch that! Which K-Dramas are you following?

PS – Since I am going back now, I will update the blog regularly (preferably on daily basis), so stay tuned!

Today’s song – 

It’s a baby girl!

It’s a baby girl!

Doesn’t have anything to do with my blog’s field, but it truly needs sharing……. Worth it!

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She was 27, and at home.

She stood in front of the mirror, naked. She looked at her breasts. This was the biggest they had ever been. But she knew that they were going to get bigger. She stared at herself for a long while before she ran her right hand across the entire area of her belly, from just above her abdomen, all the way down to its lower end. It looked bloated and the bump had begun to show through her clothes now. She was five months pregnant, and had just received her scans from her gynecologist. She had dreaded this moment would come right from when she turned into a teenager. And 15 years later, she still wasn’t prepared for it.

“You are going to have a healthy and beautiful baby girl. You just have to keep eating healthy, and get good sleep and sufficient exercise, just like…

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“Shyness is not…

“Shyness is not a disability or disease to be ‘overcome’. It is simply the way we are. And in our own quiet way, we are secretly proud of it.”

By  Garrison Keillor, author and broadcaster

Gives me hope or is it just a way to console myself? Anyways, I just hope everybody understands this one thing about us, introverts.

So Fast!!

So Fast!!

I love it when people answer me as soon as possible. Right now I’m facing both the extremes. I have been waiting for an answer to one of my queries for quite sometime now and I don’t want to call the people. I check my mail several times everyday, if they have sent some reply, but in vain. For the first mail, they responded so fast that I thought, may be, we might be able to establish good relations with this company. And if that happens, it would be a great achievement for me as an intern. I’m seeing the whole matter after all. I even sent a reminder email but I don’t know if I am doing something wrong.

On the other hand, after I talked to 케쓰 yesterday, I finally sent the mail to PEGASUS society for my lessons. And I got the reply within hours! And yesterday night, I was added to the group, received all the files and now I have started doing my homework too! (And it indeed is interesting, I must add. I’m lovin’ it.)

Ah! That reminds me, I don’t have much time to complete my homework. I have got a big heap of work at the company. On the top of that, I have got a two days trip planned for the coming holiday on 12th August in Thailand. So much to do!!! And a lots of catching up! So less time!!

But truly, I’m very thankful that I could join the group of Korean Enthusiasts like me and I’m looking forward to learning a lot. Oh! And thank you 케쓰 for advising me, otherwise I would have remained in dilemma for the whole time 🙂

On the side note, I have been slacking in posting reviews and all since I’m finding myself really busy with work and dramas. And on holidays, we generally go out because I have received my insurance. Now I have to compensate for all those weekends when I couldn’t go out for sightseeing 😛

In the end, today’s song is – 

Yay! Liebster Award!

Yay! Liebster Award!

Quite blessed I am! I never thought I would get nominated for such an award. Heck! I didn’t even know such a thing existed. So I am very very grateful to A Splash of Inspiration for providing me this opportunity (Yeah yeah, I think it just got a little formal but I am actually really thankful). It sure makes you feel beloved as its name says.

My sister laughed when I was going through the post and told my mum that something like this was going on. I was happy just being acknowledged. (I had been nominated by my friends as the biggest anime/manga freak on my college’s campus, the previous week, in a question asked on facebook) And everytime, I would smile on some new comment on my posts, she would tease me.

If you want to know more about the award, please refer to this post. But let me put the rules here:

  • Make a list of 11 Random Facts about yourself.
  • Answer the Questions that your nominator gave. 
  • Nominate at least 5 more blogs for the award
    • Only nominate blogs that have under 200 followers.
    • Obviously let those blogs know that they’ve been nominated.
    • You can’t tag back bloggers.
  • Come up with at least 5 questions for your nominees.
  • Post the badge on your site.

(Source – A Splash of Inspiration)

As for thank you to my readers and visitors, I put another post today which I had prepared long time ago.

I don’t know what else to write here so I’ll get started with the ceremony or ritual of completing the tasks allotted.

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11 random facts about me:

It’s really difficult to come up with such things but here are some facts about me

  1. I am very lazy –I am just like the main character of Hyouka – who thinks being lazy is conserving one’s energy and not actually “being lazy”. I don’t do any work until and unless, I’m told to or there is a hard deadline with severe punishment and this has been a lot of times, a cause of me getting scolded.
  2. I don’t like to study – But who does? The main thing here is (not bragging……may be a little) that I have always been among top three during my school time. I also cracked all the entrance exams (some of them are considered to be very tough), I sat for, after my high school. But after I joined college, I got involved in anime watching and manga reading so much that I almost left my studies. I don’t find studying interesting. I like to learn things by applying them practically. I have always wanted to say this. Now I feel less burdensome.
  3. At present, I am trying to learn four very similar languages – Yes, I know I am a fool but the three out of four (Manadarin, Japanese, Korean) were so similar that I actually thought learning one would help me grasp others faster and hence, I took up all. Now fourth (Thai) I have to learn out of necessity as I am soon going there. I ended up learning nothing but still I am not ready to give up.
  4. I hate Indian dramas – Being an Indian, I should not say this but the main reason I went to J and K dramas is because they have a defined story and get completed in limited no. of episodes. In India, dramas keep going on for like years with generations, doppelgangers, a lot of plastic surgeries and what not! Although there is a fad here, that Indian serials are for aunties but the series targeting the youth are no better. But that may be my opinion only.
  5. I am socially inert person – Not a very random fact but yes, I don’t like to socialize. That’s why I feel comfortable in talking through chats. Irony is, I do like to make friends with total strangers especially if they are from different country but in a crowd of people, known or unknown, I feel uncomfortable
  6. I start hating guys if I meet them more than a few times or talk to them very frequently– I sometimes laugh at this one but it’s true. There have been a very few exceptions, may be one or two. If someone keeps pinging me on facebook or gtalk and keeps chatting with me (even if it is due to work) or I get to meet a particular guy very often due to gatherings and all, I develop aversion towards the person. Or if a person shows over kindness or friendliness when I am not acknowledging his help. I am not talking about only the flirt kinds but the general too.
  7. I have been called a kiddo all my life because my friends thought I couldn’t understand what they were talking about – Hehe. It’s a kind of confession but sorry friends. If any of you is reading this, I did understand everything, every damn thing, be it adult talk or whatever. Only, wasn’t too sure if I was deducing the meaning correctly and I was right most of the times.
  8. I don’t like to make people wait – Contrary to what is generally believed here that if you reach a place at time, it decreases your importance, I rather prefer to reach the place five minutes early.
  9. I am an attention seeker – I hate to admit, but I like people’s attention (please…..not in a bad way!!). But that should be due to my achievements and not due to anything physical. That’s why, I used to work my ass off in my school trying to shine in those areas too which were not my cup of tea. But oh well! Everyone gets to know their limits.
  10. I can’t look in people’s eyes – Though very important for communication, I can’t do it no matter what! And I haven’t been able to find a concrete reason for avoiding eye contact with people.
  11. I am very bad at remembering people’s faces – The above point is the reason for that but I had to make them two, because I am not getting any more points right now. My friends do ask me, how can I not remember faces of Indian people but immediately get to learn Korean and Japanese people’s faces (which, to them, seem same same). My problem is genuine and for every human being. Just that when I get crazy over a group, I get really crazy, upto the point that I tend to finish all the dramas and reality shows, they have been cast in.

Questions asked by the nominator:

  1. If you could blog about anything else in the world, what would it be and why? – I don’t think, I would have started the blog if it wasn’t for this. Even this blog was started because I got frustrated with people asking me same questions again and again. But, if, if it was an absolute necessity, then maybe something about ………….. I seriously can’t think of myself writing on any topic except this even after one day. So, yup, I wouldn’t have started blogging.
  2. How did you initially get interested in the topic that you blog about? (For K-drama/K-pop people, how did you come across those things in the first place?) – This question I have already answered in my first ever post. Please feel free to refer here. Specifically speaking, Hana Yori Dango was my start for search of dramas. The anime being very old, I couldn’t find it and the streams available did not work in my college (there were a lot of restrictions on internet especially videos at that time). Then I saw Boys Over Flowers and it all started. Though my first drama was Dae Jang Geum but it didn’t arouse my interest in other things that much. After Boys Over Flowers, I became a huge fan of K and J dramas and the OSTs took me to the world of K-pop (J-pop, I was listening earlier too due to anime)
  3. Sike! That URL is taken and your site’s name is copyrighted.  Now you have to change your site’s name and web address. What will it be and why? – A difficult one. I had tried this name hundreds of times on different search engines before putting it down. Hmmm…. Another name. May be “My Name Was Taken” (just kidding) or “My addiction to East Asia” something like that? I mean, it would be just adjustment with words, meaning would have been same.
  4. This is your last post ever. What would you address in it? – If this ever happens, my last post would be ‘How I actually got to marry an East Asian guy and how I led my life after that’. Wah! That would be dream come true. On a realistic note, my last post would be giving suggestions to future East Asian lovers about what I am planning to do, if it’s present and what I did, if it is future, to increase the awareness about this amazing world of anime, dramas and pop culture among others around me.
  5. You have to pick one specific topic (it can’t be too general like “movies”) to blog about for an entire month. What topic would you choose and why did you choose it? (Try to stay within the confines of what you currently blog about.) –  The moment I saw the question, only one name flashed through my mind and that was Super Junior. I first got introduced to SM Groups through Shinee’s OST for Boys Over Flowers. After that when I saw Super Junior, I finished almost everything I could, their songs, MVs, making of MVs, their dramas, their reality shows and even their performances on Music Bank and award ceremonies….. whatever I got subbed in English. Even if there was only one member in any series or episode, I have tried to cover everything. Yup, so I think I have a lot of material to talk about them.

My five questions:

  1. What is one sure shot thing according to you, which can help, at least, to incline other people’s interest towards your interest (K-pop, J-pop, anime, drama etc. etc.)?
  2. You want to open a club related to East Asian culture specifically related to dramas, anime manga in your school. How will you convince your very strict principal who doesn’t believe in anything else other than studies and for him, it’s all waste of time?
  3. The world is about to end. What is the first thing that comes to your mind reading the sentence related to your interest and what might be the reason for that?
  4. What is that one thing you find very difficult to explain people related to your interest other than why are you interested at all?
  5. Why did you start taking interest in your field (related to your blog)? Is there any particular reason or you just began casually and your interest just grew?

The bloggers I want to nominate:

  1. Be Unique
  2. 自分自身に忠実である
  3. P-Chan’s Delicious Drama Reviews
  4. Fresh Korean
  5. Korealignments

PS – This post is too long for me to review so i would like to apologize for the mistakes grammatical or otherwise.

Thank You :-)

Thank You :-)

Man! The comments are real motivators. Since I’m new in blogging area, I didn’t know about spam comments until recently. All the comments of people who weren’t bloggers but commented otherwise were flagged as spam. I got to read them sometime back and almost cried seeing the response of people. I mean, I don’t have very good writing skills. I jump from one thing to another in one post only. I don’t have very good vocab either. All in all, I write in simple English (err…..that is a good thing, isn’t it?) I just wanted to meet people with same interests as mine.

This world which I have formed around me is totally different. I get to hear a lot due to my interests. “Why there?”, “What will you do learning these languages, why not try some European lang?”, “They are like this, like that”, “You would never get veg food there (since I’m a vegetarian….. did I tell you that?)” and what not. But that’s my choice. I like the cultures, the languages and the people. (Not that I’ve met any but anyways) And that’s why I write.

Oops! I again deviated from the topic. The main reason for this post is to thank all the people who have shown interest in my blog. Thank you very much and please keep guiding me in the future to do my best. (Is this a little early? Should have I posted this when I got like 100+ followers? Nah…… It’s never too early to appreciate support from people, is it?) Looking forward to more followers and commenters 😛

Here is a new song: